Everything will be okay.
Look, there are going to be points where you want to die; where you don’t want to do it anymore but please think rationally for a sec; people do care. Things will get better.
Things will not always be bad and things can get better even faster when you and your problems…
You are beautiful.
I dont care what anyone says. I dont care what you say. You are absolutely beautiful. Yes, its true, you might not have flawless skin or the shinest hair. You might have flaws but please just clear your mind and think; dont we all? Even that girl or guy you envy so much who has…
I love you.
this means a lot, my boyfriend considers him self fat no matter what I tell him. One of my best guy friends thinks no one will date him because he is over weight which is the most un true thing every. All guys bodies are attractive.
This means a lot to me too because my boyfriend also thinks he’s fat regardless of what I say. The saddest day was when I watched him step on a scale and get sad at a number he saw. Spread the love.
My boyfriend always puts himself down because he thinks he’s too skinny, :(
shout out to all my male followers (;
how is it only now that more people seem to be realising that guys suffer too? this isn’t aimed at anyone i’m just saying… i’m a guy and i hate my body, people have laughed in my face before when they found out that i hate myself because they think that only girls suffer… so yeah, boys suffer too.
people don’t seem to realize that men get objectified in ads just as much as women do, they get advertised to about being worthless if they aren’t fit/muscular/handsome/don’t have a girlfriend/don’t have a big dick.
and people say that this is a “mans world,” and they get a lot of flack for not being, acting, looking, or even sounding manly enough.
my boyfriend gets low about his looks compared to others, and no matter how much i tell him otherwise i can tell it still eats away at him.
just like when i get low about my looks.
just remember that guys get degraded by the standards of the media just as much as women do.
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Holy shit thank youuuuu
I was at a concert on Friday and one girl at the merch table asked for a small sized t shirt and the guy asked if she preferred men’s or women’s small and the guy behind her said “there’s a men’s small? that’s embarrassing” and it actually was embarrassing knowing that I was about to go up there and get one for myself and this is actually a big issue okay
I have a lot of fans who tell me I’m not overweight and that I shouldn’t be hard on myself. These people are lovely. But honestly I imagine it’s what a girl feels like when she’s rocking a “no makeup” look and people say “see, look how pretty you are without makeup!”
I put a lot of time and effort into dressing, posing and framing myself in a way that I can hide my weight because the millisecond I drop my guard I get a thousand comments from my audience telling me I’m looking fat.
I’m pretty damn certain the pressure on women to look good is far worse than it is for men but as someone in the public eye I can safely say that yes, it sucks a whole bag of fucks.
I thought this could make you all a little happier.
I just made the most inhuman noise
WHEN IT REALIZES THE PERSON IS STILL THERE AND GOES BACK TO BEING ‘DEAD’
Worth an infinity of reblogs.
One of the sweetest things I’ve ever seen.
This is beautiful.
I will never not reblog this.
This is so sweet!
Everyone needs this on their blog or theyre heartless.
get a better mirror
look a little closer
stare a little longer
because there’s something inside you
that made you keep trying
despite everyone who told you to quit
you built a cast around your broken heart
and signed it yourself
you signed it
“they were wrong
I used to be a huge cutter and I don't want to fall back into that trend. I'm really scared and I have nightmares all the time and sometimes I'll wake up in the middle of the night and have an anxiety attack. I don't know what I should do or what I should tell my boyfriend either. I know he loves me and that's not the problem, I do want to be open it's just really hard
again, I do the same. exact. thing.
I have reoccurring nightmares, horrid social anxiety, and depression/suicidal thoughts.
what I’ve done is make a list of things, people, bands, bandmembers, animes, books, or anything I’ve used as an alternative to distract myself from other things. I find that distracting myself, though doesn’t keep the thoughts and stuff away for long, can help.
as for your nightmares, know that they are that; nightmares. try are figments of our imaginations that we can’t explain and yet to know why exactly why we dream the way we do. 9.9 times out of 10, that dream will never come true in your life time and when you do have an anxiety attack, take deep breaths and remember, it’s just your body acting up. you can control it, you can eventually help yourself and anxiety attacks by reminding yourself that they are just dreams. they have not happened, and if they’re from the past, try and let them go no matter how painful and hard it is. when we cling to the past, we open healing scars that just embed themselves deeper into us until the point where WE won’t let them heal.
as for your boyfriend, tell him the things you’re comfortable with and just say for the things you haven’t told him, it just isn’t the right time. make a vow with him if you’re comfortable doing so, that whenever those things that are bothering you become too much that you’ll try and talk to him. if he’s a good, understanding guy at all, he will accept that and won’t push you anymore. if he does keep pushing, DO NOT DO ANYTHING YOURE UNCOMFORTABLE WITH. DO NOT SHARE ANYTHING YOU ARE NOT COMFORTABLE SHARING. just change the subject, and drop the topic. if he insists after that, maybe even stop texting him for an hour or two until he forgets.
So I don't really know you and I'm sorry but I really need to talk to someone. I have anxiety pretty bad partly due to an abusive relationship I was in a little while back and it is really hard to deal with especially around people. I used to be very talkative but now I tend to close myself off from the world. My boyfriend realized this and wants to know why I can't be more open. I really do want to but I don't know how. I'm glad he doesn't understand what it's like but it's hard.
alright first off, I’m sorry it took so long for me to answer. second, my boyfriend does the same thing. he knows I go through stuff and I pretty much just tell him the stuff I think he can handle, and the stuff I can handle telling him. if he pushes farther just try and explain to him that you just really aren’t ready to go in depth about your past or certain feelings yet.
if he’s a good guy, he should understand and he should be there for you through thick and thin; I swear to you, you deserve nothing less.
you sound very strong; you sound like you’ve gone through things no person should have to go through and I am proud of you. I know I don’t know you, but I don’t think I could be that strong. you seem like a wonderful, strong, and amazing person who has been hurt by people and life unfairly. carry on dear, because in the long run, when things get better and you’re content and happy, you’ll be more than thankful you did.